Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Down But Not Out


DOWN BUT NOT OUT by BENSON
 
For You created my inmost being; You knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful, I know that full well. (Psalm 139:13-14)

               August 03, 2014 Reuter News Reporter Juarawee Kittsilpa reported that a Thai surrogate mother was left with one of her twins because the baby’s Australian biological parents after learning that he was born with Down’s syndrome decided to leave him with his surrogate mother. According to Pattaramon Janbua, the surrogate mother, she was not informed of the baby’s condition until late in her pregnancy even if her doctors, the surrogate agency and the baby’s parents knew the baby was disabled at four months. She recounted that she only knew of the condition during the seventh month where the surrogate agency asked her to abort the disabled fetus.[1]  
               Down syndrome also known as “Trisomy 21” occurs in 1 out of 830 live births. It is a genetic disorder associated with mild to moderate learning disabilities, developmental delays, characteristic facial features, and low muscle tone in early infancy. Those affected also have heart defects, leukemia, Alzheimer’s disease, and other health problems. The symptoms of Down syndrome may range from mild to severe. Whereas before life expectancy was under 30 now it has dramatically increased because of medical care and social provision has improved and a person with Down syndrome of good health will live at an average of 55 years old and over. [2]    

               To determine whether an embryo has any abnormalities, there is an old procedure which is performed between 15 and 18 weeks (2nd trimester) while the newer ones though a bit risky is done between 10 to 12 weeks    (1st trimester).[3] During this period, the embryo is now a fetus and the feet, neck, body muscles, mouth, nose, ears, nose can be seen clearly and is developing.[4] Be reminded that we are not talking about a three to six week period, thus negating the ongoing debate whether an embryo is to be considered a human being or not.   
 
               Nowadays there is such a thing called “Therapeutic abortion” where abortion is allowed in consideration of the mother’s physical or mental health, or to prevent the birth of a deformed child or of a child conceived as a result of rape or incest.[5] 
 
               But how does the Scripture deal with such problems? Even though the Bible is silent when it comes to fetal abnormalities, we can also see that God value life from the moment it is fertilized. With passages like “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart.” (Jeremiah 1:5a) “For God created my inmost being, God knit me together in my mother’s womb.” (Psalm 139:13) Without a doubt, God truly created us and He knows what He is doing.
 
               Yet we cannot deny the cry of a mother and in her pain ask, "How can a loving and perfect God allow a child in her womb to have abnormalities and suffer?"



Questions for reflection:
1.     Is it ethical for a mother to abort a fetus with abnormalities?
2.     What if the soon-to-be mother is emotionally and financially unprepared to cope and provide for the needs of this babay?
3.     How can we explain that this preborn baby even with abnormalities is perfect in God’s eyes?


[5] therapeutic-abortion. Dictionary.com. The American Heritage® Stedman's Medical Dictionary. Houghton Mifflin Company. http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/therapeutic-abortion (accessed: August 04, 2014).

15 comments:

  1. ethics...uhhmm.. where does it end and compassion begins? There are a lot more ethical questions that arise from this issue. In the first place, is it even ethical for the parties to have engaged in a "surrogate mother transaction?" There was even a surrogate agency to begin with? What has our world come to? Is this God's way of telling us something? Give credit though to the surrogate mom as she declined to abort the fetus early on after being informed of the condition. Though it could probably be more of fear of aborting the transaction (pun intended) than anything else as we know she is just a food seller in thailand and needs the money for her 2 other kids. But i don't think it we can condemn the Australian couple as well as their reaction could be a knee-jerk reaction as we all may have done too in the same situation. But I believe God is all-knowing and really has His reasons for all these. For all we know, the boy could grow up well and as we discuss this, blessings are pouring in from donations of concerned citizens. The Australian government is now considering giving him citizenship and this is vital as he can now get free healthcare. Given the advancement in medical technology, who knows what happens next. God works in mysterious ways. Each one of us are God's creatures and He looks upon us evenly and fairly.

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  2. Who can question God of His perfect creation through not perfect in our sight? I think it is a question of our attitude how we receive what is given of us by the Lord. If we received it as a gift from Him and the opportunity to experience God's love more through this children, it is true we may see them DOWN but NOT OUT! For sure God gave it with a purpose not for our own convenience as parents but how to exercise and show His love to others. Love for God is not measured by our devotion but manifested in our action to love others. How are they different from our view of prostitutes, people of other faith, etc. I think the bottom line is how we see things as God intended us to receive them with love.

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  3. Interesting article Kuya, it is indeed a sad problem. Having seen many parents within my own family struggle with children with abnormalities I can say I see one common thread. None of the mothers ever wish that their child was never born. However, this comes from people who have resources. One question that comes to mind is that, is a human life ever ours to take?

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  4. It is not ethical to abort a fetus whether normal or abnormal , according to the law of God. Thou shall not murder , so regardless of the financial status of the parents it is morally unacceptable to abort . All things God created are good , we should accept all things that comes from God

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  5. I think we need to value both life, let us do our all efforts to save both life.

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  6. I think it is unethical for the mother to abort fetus with abnormalities. I believe that God will provide for both the mom and the child. I dont know why these things happen to certain people but who are we to question God. I believe that God has a purpose for allowing these things to happen. Lets just trust Him.

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  7. Your issue is difficult for me to answer, but I know that God form a baby since the baby is in the womb. So I believe that God's will for the mother to nurse the baby. Mini

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  8. Personally, I do not support abortion but sometimes the situation may force to do it. If the baby is still very small like three to four months it may be suggested according to the situation. However, this an illegal open secret in many countries................Joy

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  9. 1) Question number 1 is a Paradox. Abortion and Ethics is doesn't come together unless the basis of 'ethics's is unbiblical or secular. There is no way a child should be killed because of its abnormalities.

    2) Question number 2 is a good question to answer both in the approaches of biblical and what is real and actual. Bibically, we would always say, every good thing that comes from the Lord is good. There are alot of people today, who may not have funds to support their baby's needs, have been very joyful and happy with what they have. We would always go back to the thought that if God gave then God would provide.
    On the other hand, reality and actuality also would come in. Being a parent of a special child is hard. It takes alot of effort, time and patience yet it also gives joy to some parents. I could not imagine a mother-a passionate mother, who would abandon someone that came from herself. Babies are made out of the human body. So they must be aware that abandoning their child is abandoning a part of them.

    3) The truth is, explaining it is hard. The only way that we can appreciate and show that we care for those parents who have this special task for their special children is by showing them your care and your concern for their child as well. Sometimes explaining might be easier said than done. We may manifest instead the truth of the love of God by loving the people who has that kind of needs and also the one who is taking care of them, their parents.

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  10. Really hard to answer for this problem, even he or she down but is living, i agree with you "down but not out". That is a soul that God created. Any soul is equal before God, even abnormal with men but normal with God. So the men cannot kill that person.

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  11. 1) What is ethics? By whose standard do we define what is ethical? By God's or by man's? The Bible is our basis. God said do not kill (period). In the OT, even when God set up many laws to govern intentional and unintentional offenses, there were always consequences. If such was the case for unintentional offenses, more so for intentional taking of a life whether that life is 'normal' or not.

    2) Financial or emotional factors... again, are these the basis for what is ethical? Even if pregnancies resulted from rape or incest or ignorant promiscuity or irresponsibility, is it ethical to right the wrong with another wrong? Can we justify murder because of rape? Yes, it is definitely easier said than done; especially on the 'victim' - the mother... but God enables - if only we are attentive to His whispers...the fact that we are deliberating about the ethical issues proves that in our hearts and in our minds, we know what God tells us - how He sees things.

    3) God is the Creator of all things and all of His creation He deemed as good. In fact on the last day, when He created man, He said it was 'very good'. God created man in His own image - this image and likeness of His goodness was tarnished when man sinned. But God sent His Son to atone for man's sin - to redeem back man's good image in God. If even sin cannot take away God's goodness in man, much less physical abnormalities which are manifested in a temporal body - a transient body which will eventually be renewed and glorified.

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  12. No, it's not ethical to abort even if the mother is not capable or unpreprared. She can have it adopted to a family who will take care of this child. We are all imperfect and have our weaknesses but in God's eyes we are perfect because we are created in His image and likeness.

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  13. I think it's not ethical at all in the eyes of man and God's. God created us all and so He is the only one who can take a life back. He knows even every single strand of our hair and so I believe that He made us individually beautiful in His eyes. We are special to God even when we think and feel that we are not.

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  14. It's easy to say that it's unethical to abort an abnormal fetus but I won't judge a mother who chooses to terminate. In the end, it's the mother's right to decide what she thinks is best for herself and her unborn baby.

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  15. It's really hard to decide with this kind of issues. My initial reaction would be to let the baby live because God has a plan for creating us differently than normal.I have heard of testimonies of families who are doing well with a "differently abled" member.

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